My husband wanted a divorce for the past 5yrs but i never did until now?

but now that i want to give him what he had been asking for & wanting he decides he wants to work it out but hes always told me that i forced him to marry and i didnt let him separate. we dont spend time together doing activities and we dont have anything in common and we dont communicate we never did but he now decides to change because he wants me to always spend time in the bdrm but i dont love him and now i want to leave and he says i am breaking HIS heart. any advice?